Levity
I feel like a great weight has been lifted from my heart. I just spoke to K on the phone. We had a frank discussion about how we both feel. She’s not particularly interested in me romantically.
That’s a little bit frustrating. I’d rather hear that she wasn’t interested in me at all; but she was honest, and that’s a great relief. She’s *maybe* interested. But not a lot.
I feel so much better. I’m just dying to feel a romantic connection with someone; but if it’s not true, I’d rather know that up front than indulge in an illusion. So our talk this evening took a huge load off my mind. The next time we meet, I can focus on just having a good time with her and not worry about wondering what she feels about me. It’s probably not going to end up with us in bed. But she’s a damn cool person to list among my friends.
November 6th, 2003 at 1:08 am
On the one hand: well, that sucks.
On the other: no one can ever have too many friends that we can be ourselves around and make each other laugh. So enjoy the fact that you have a new someone that you are sure you can be great friends with. And with the no-sex pressure, it makes it even better.
Now you get to focus on going out, meeting a wonderful woman, and getting laid.
Big hug, sweet pea.
November 6th, 2003 at 7:55 am
Beware romance, especially romance with a porn star.
November 6th, 2003 at 9:01 am
Well Sh*t.
Yes it is good to have another “little sister” but too bad she is not going for the whole enchilada. I think “Caution: Soggy Carpet” would have been a more appropriate sign. Good luck with the ad, girls can’t resist honest, goal oriented men.
November 6th, 2003 at 1:14 pm
Well, at least your previous entry should attract more hits to your blog.
For what it’s worth, my current husband (last 29+ years) started our relationship with the comment that he did not love me, but he did like me. Which he found unusual, because he was a leg man who liked short blondes (I am tall busty brunette). It’s likely to last a lot longer when you start a relationship with friendship rather than with lust. Of course, our son doesn’t believe me, but at least he is finally looking at their mothers before succumbing to terminal lust.
November 6th, 2003 at 6:37 pm
I feel for you. It took me a long time to find someone, but it will happen. Not that it makes any difference, but it is just as hard if not harder trying to find a decent man, or a decent man that likes decent men… am I making sense?
All in all Be glad you do not live in the deep south, it is REALLY tough trying to meet people here.